Past President and Life Member of the Willoughby Theatre Company
The Willoughby Theatre Company has lost one of its leading lights with the death of Tom Sweeney, on Wednesday 6th May 2026.
Tom grew up in Lane Cove and attended St Pius X College, Chatswood where he was a member of the choir.
He was persuaded to join what was then called the Willoughby Musical Society in 1969 “to help make up the numbers in the men’s chorus” and never left. Over the succeeding decades he has done everything from acting, singing and directing to set design, props and even making the tea.
“Oliver!” in 1978 marked his debut as a Producer and Choreographer and broke attendance records for the Society with 3,653 people coming to see the show. Tom directed over 40 musicals including “Sweet Charity” in 1984, “Chicago” in 1987; “42nd Street” in 1997, “Titanic” in 2003 and “The Boy from Oz” in 2011 as well as the 60th Anniversary Gala performance in 2017.
His early experiences in musicals at Willoughby Musical Society led him to take lessons in tap and modern dance and singing to improve his skills and he then performed for a couple of years in a local group of singers and dancers called The Music Makers to raise money for charity.
He met his wife, Joy Charman, in his first show, “Oklahoma!” in which she played the leading lady and they married in 1974. Joy is also a talented actor, director, writer and skilled costume designer and was Willoughby Citizen of the Year in 2010. Both Tom and Joy served in committee as well as production roles at the Society and were passionate about musical theatre, giving their time generously to help bring countless shows to the stage for audiences to enjoy, as well as fostering young talent and forming many long lasting friendships along the way.
In a 1980 newspaper article in the North Shore Times Tom attributed his interest in theatre to his grandfather, known as Ted Stanley, who was a comedian and vaudeville performer in the early 20th Century as well as a successful children’s entertainer on radio in the late 1930s to early 1940s.

Willoughby Musical Society changed its name in 2006 to Willoughby Theatre Company and the following year Tom was elected President of the Company, serving in this role for 12 years during which Chatswood’s new performing arts complex, known as The Concourse, was built on the former Civic Centre site between 2008–11. The Bailey Hall, WTC’s performance venue for more than 30 years was one of the Civic buildings demolished to make way for The Concourse, leaving them without a theatre during the interim. Tom became involved with the planning of the new development and then in the organisation of its opening celebrations. The Willoughby Theatre Company staged the first production at The Concourse Theatre, “The Boy from Oz” which played in September–October 2011.
In 2003, Tom was named Willoughby Citizen of the Year and 15 years later he received the Medal of the Order of Australia (OAM) in The Queen’s Birthday 2018 Honours List for his service to the performing arts and to the community of Willoughby.
Outside of theatre Tom had a career in PR and Marketing and worked in roles as diverse as a member of the special events team that opened the Sydney Harbour Tunnel, Director for the 1988 World Scout Jamboree Closing Ceremony, the Department of Health, the Royal Institute for Deaf and Blind Children (now called NextSense) and as a celebrant. One of his former workplaces was Macquarie Park Cemetery and Crematorium where he drew on his acting skills to run ‘ghost’ tours to help raise the Cemetery’s profile, following its name change from Northern Suburbs General Cemetery in 2004. In an interview with Stage Whispers, Tom described how he played a lantern carrying character called Mr Sowerberry from Oliver!, the musical, based on the Charles Dickens novel, for the evening tours of the graves of famous people buried in the cemetery.
His love of theatre extended to other community theatre groups, notably the Pymble Players of which he was a long-term member and Vice President; and Theatre on Chester at Epping. He has also been involved in the Scouting movement and Rotary. In 2022 Willoughby Theatre Company established the Sweeney Award in honour of both Tom and Joy. The Award is presented at the end of each WTC production and recognises someone who commits themselves wholeheartedly to a show in the spirit of Tom and Joy Sweeney.
WTC now has an enviable reputation as one of Australia’s leading community theatre companies largely due to the unflagging efforts of Tom (and Joy) Sweeney. Willoughby Theatre Company President, Scott Richmond knew Tom for nearly 40 years and remembers him as “Larger than life… A little bit cheeky. Commanding the room with that unmistakable twinkle in his eye.” His many qualities included a boundless energy, charisma, panache, commitment and ability to inspire others to believe in themselves. In his eulogy for Tom’s funeral Scott said that “Tom had a gift for making people feel seen…. valued… and welcome” … and… “He didn’t just direct shows, he directed people toward their potential.”
His legacy is enormous.
Tom was diagnosed with a form of blood cancer called Myeloma about five years ago and passed away on Wednesday 6th May 2026, shortly after celebrating his 79th birthday in April. His funeral was held in the Magnolia Chapel at Macquarie Park Cemetery on Thursday 14th May 2026.
Image credits
- Tom and Joy Sweeney receiving the OAM, 2018. Source: Willoughby Theatre Company Facebook page.
- Publicity headshot of Tom Sweeney. Source: The Association of Community Theatre (ACT).